I have been busy doing nothing... haha... There is a emotions for everyday life test today. So I tried hard to prepare for it even though I am intending to s/u. Haha... In the end, the test is not really that simple. So... Ya... Study liaoz also like that. Haha... Have been spending time trying to stay current and up to date for my tutorials. So... Ya rather busy these days.

Next week is recess week. But it seems like its not much of a recess because there are just so many things to be done. "-_- Is there even time to rest and relax in the recess week? I hope so...

Enough about my boring life. Haha... That day someone asked me whether virginity is important. Haha... Its a very subjective topic. But my answer was in this modern society where premarital sex is so common, I think virginity is not so important.

So to support my stand, I would have a hypothesis. Suppose, Miss A and Mr B has been dating for 4 years and on one faithful day they decided that they are just close enough to engage in sex. So they had sex. Miss A lost her virginity. During the next year, Miss A and Mr B had a lot of disputes out of a sudden leading to an eventual break up. Miss A meets Mr C and they got together after one year of being friends. Both had mutual love. Do you think that Mr C will just disregard his love for Miss A just because she lost her virginity to Mr B before? I am sure Mr C won't. What is the value of virginity in a relationship? Do we all date just because we want sex out of a relationship or do we date because we love the company of the other person? I would think that a relationship is a relationship. X love Y. Thats it... Virgin or not does it really matter? If virginity is important in a sense that you are not the first or she/he had already been possessed by another party before, we have to ask ourselves is love a possession?? Love is love its not a possession. Nobody likes to be possessed. So love is not about possession. Hence, we should not let virginity hinder a relationship based on the point of possession.

Of course the hypothesis is too idealistic and not always true in the real world. Sex viewed in a more liberal way is yet another expression of love or in fact deep love. So if virginity is lost based on love, I wouldn't think that it is important. On the flip side of the coin, there are people who just have sex for pleasure, not saying that the former proposition doesn't give pleasure but saying that sex is a transaction more than an expression in this case. Transaction in that sex is an exchange of pleasure for each other with no love attached. These transactions occur often with different people. Virginity lost in this aspect may be reflective of the person and in this case, virginity is important.

Alright, my views may be of a tunnel vision, so I welcome discussions from my readers. Haha... Thats all for today. Cheers. Enjoy!!